Night before last, I had an intense dream. Nothing new, since most of my dreams are intense. The thing is, right before I woke up, I was given advice in my dream—not sure by whom—and it echoed in my mind upon waking and for hours afterward.
The advice, as told to me in my dream, was this: “Serve your own plate.”
It is a metaphor for life, and for choosing what’s best for you in your life. The meaning behind it is simple: when you go to put food on your plate (perhaps at a smörgåsbord or potluck, for instance), serve your own plate. You alone should choose what items you put on your plate. Do not give your plate to anybody else, and do not let anyone else determine the things you will have on your plate. Select items you most want and desire, because it is your plate (your life). Since you’ll be eating those things (experiencing those things in life), you alone should determine which choices are best for you.
The advice in my dream was simple, but profound. I really had to sit with it and think about it for a while. It still resonates with me days later.
It’s not uncommon for me to see names, words, phrases in my dreams—actually written out so I can read them. This has been happening with me for the past several years. It’s a new development, as I have not had it for most of my life. However, in this dream, the advice was not written out, but spoken.
Again, I do not recall who gave me this advice, but I am grateful for it. I felt the need to share it with you all, because I believe it’s something you, too, need to hear.
So, this is your plate. It’s called life. Serve your own plate!